Monday Master Blog: Be a winner of your own life

We live in a world where we as humans all live our lives according to certain patterns.

The best-known way to explain these is to divide them into three types of patterns:

1) Circular pattern: A pattern that a person continues to repeat without breaking it.

2) Zigzag/Yo-yo pattern: Attempts are made to break the pattern, but there is always a relapse.

3) Straight line pattern: An A and B are determined, the pattern is broken and a better or more favorable pattern is applied.

In general, I see a combination of these patterns in people. When I look at entrepreneurs, I see that it is often a combination of 2 and 3. They have a starting point and they have a goal. And they work towards this at different points in their lives: business, private, physical and within relationships.

In life you see two types of people: winners and losers. And I'm not talking about the result or outcome, but about the mindset, the way of thinking, the attitude. There are people who always want to win, to win with their team, to be the best at everything. And that's not to brag or show off. These people have an internal urge to always get the most out of something. The other people quickly settle for just participating or even watching from the sidelines. There is no right or wrong in this story, but there is a difference in outcome.

But a person is a person. Everyone has to deal with an internal world. Everyone has bad days, weeks or periods sometimes. During these periods there is a lack of motivation, a lack of discipline and above all a lack of action. Some people think winners don't have those moments. They think that the people on TV, the top athletes, the actors, the superstars don't have those days, but nothing could be further from the truth. The only difference is the speed of action.

And I'll explain what that means. Even though these people have these periods, they have become experts at observing themselves and taking immediate action in this situation. So they intervene quickly. This ensures that they return to the upward trend in terms of results more quickly. This ensures that they are on the upward trend more often than on the downward trend. This way they get further and faster to the result they really want.

As a person, do you want to get more out of your life and be on your own upward trajectory more often? Then start with brutally honest observations of yourself when you are in a slump and ensure that the speed of taking action and change is many times faster.

BE A WINNER OF YOUR OWN LIFE!

Joren Wielart
Enforce Franchisee & Master Trainer
joren@enforce.nl
 

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